How Do You Define Success? Chart Your Own Path to Fulfillment (7 Key Areas to Consider)

Growing up, I believed success meant having a high-paying job and a big bank balance. Society wired us to think this way. But is financial wealth the only measure of success? How do you define success?

Over time, I realized that this narrow view often leads people to lose sight of what truly makes them happy. Chasing money at all costs can leave us feeling unfulfilled, stressed, and disconnected from the things that matter most—our well-being, relationships, and sense of purpose.

While financial success is valuable, it’s just one piece of the puzzle. True success can also mean maintaining good health, earning a degree, making a positive impact, or simply waking up each day feeling fulfilled.

For many people—especially in midlife—that question of fulfillment becomes more urgent. During the generativity vs. stagnation stage of life, it’s common to start reevaluating what success really means, especially if past goals no longer feel aligned with who you’ve become.

Don’t get me wrong—I have nothing against making money. It fuels life in many ways. But is it the only way to define a successful life?

Social media doesn’t help either. Everywhere you look, young people, in particular, are flaunting their latest vacations, luxury cars, academic achievements, or career milestones. It’s easy to feel like you’re falling behind—like you’re not doing enough or not measuring up.

But here’s the thing: success is a relative term. What matters is how you define it—not society, not social media, and certainly not anyone else’s expectations.

So, let me ask you again—how do you define success?

This time, block out the noise. Forget what you've been told success should look like and turn inward. What truly matters to you? That’s your definition of success.

To help you figure it out, I’ll break down different aspects of success—beyond money—so you can create a meaningful vision. By the end, I hope you’ll see that success isn’t one-size-fits-all. 

Your new motto? 

Living life on your terms is the only way to measure success.

Related: 8 of the Most Successful Personalities

What Does Success Really Feel Like?

It was eye-opening when I looked up the definition of success in the Cambridge Dictionary. Nowhere did it mention wealth, high-ranking job titles, or social status—the things society often associates with being "successful."

According to the dictionary, "success" means: 

1. The achievement of results wanted or hoped for.

2. Something that brings positive results.

This definition makes one thing clear: success is personal. It’s not about meeting some universal standard—it’s about achieving what matters most to you. 

For one person, success might mean landing a high-paying executive role. For another, professional success could mean working in a quiet research position, far from the spotlight, but fully aligned with their passion.

A job in the top-floor office or running a juice stand on the beach? It’s your choice.

True Success Feels Like Deep Fulfillment

At the end of the day, success isn’t about external validation—it’s about how deeply fulfilling your choices feel.

If you chase degrees, promotions, or money at the expense of your mental health, can that really be called success? If you sacrifice your personal relationships just to be named "Employee of the Month," is that a win?

A truly successful person is someone who designs their life in a way that feels authentic and deeply rewarding. Someone who can look back and say, "I didn’t settle—I did it my way."

Defining Success for Yourself

The key to success is balance. You don’t have to sacrifice one part of your life to thrive in another. Instead, you need to create a vision that aligns with what truly matters to you.

Before you start defining success for yourself, take a moment to close your eyes and imagine your ideal life. If you had no limitations—no financial constraints, no external pressures—what would your most fulfilling life look like?

• How do you spend your days?
• Who are you surrounded by?
• What work are you doing, if any?
• How do you feel when you wake up in the morning?

Now, let’s break it down further with specific questions to help guide your personal definition of success:

1. What does financial stability mean to me, and what am I willing to do to create the lifestyle I want?
2. What is my ultimate professional goal, and will it bring me fulfillment?
3. Do I prefer the freedom to set my own goals?
4. What does success look like in terms of my health and well-being?
5. What does being successful feel like for me in terms of personal relationships?
6. How do I want to contribute to my community, my workplace, or the world at large?
7. What practices, beliefs, or values bring me the deepest sense of peace and purpose? 

Defining success takes self-reflection, planning, and the courage to make decisions that truly align with your values. But once you gain clarity, your answers will serve as a personal roadmap, helping you create a vision of success that aligns with your priorities.

Now, it’s time to take deliberate action toward that vision—because true success is about living life on your terms. 

How to Define Success: 7 Areas That Shape a Fulfilling Life

Success looks different for everyone. But at its core, it’s about achieving meaningful accomplishments in the areas that matter most to you.

As I reflected on my own definition of success, I explored what researchers, life coaches, and other experts had to say. Certain themes stood out—patterns that many successful people associate with a truly fulfilling life.

I'd like to share them with you. Hopefully, these perspectives will help guide you toward a vision of success that feels both authentic and aligned with your desired outcome.

1. Financial Freedom

For many, success is tied to financial wealth. But the big question is: how much is enough money?

Despite their fortunes, billionaires still work tirelessly to accumulate more. Meanwhile, most people simply dream of a financially stable life—one where they can provide for their families, navigate challenges, and afford a few luxuries that bring joy.

There’s no wrong answer. If your ambition is to become the next self-made billionaire, go for it. If success to you means earning enough to live comfortably while enjoying time with loved ones, that’s equally valid.

At the end of the day, defining your ideal lifestyle is key. Set short-term and long-term financial goals that align with your values, and embrace the journey toward achieving them.

2. Career Achievement and Personal Growth

Traditionally, success has been synonymous with climbing the corporate ladder or launching a thriving business. But career success isn’t one-size-fits-all.

For some, it’s about reaching leadership positions. For others, it’s about working for a company that nurtures skill development, fosters creativity, or aligns with personal and work values. 

And here’s something that often gets overlooked: it’s okay to change your mind. The career path you thought you wanted as a college student might not be the one that fulfills you years down the line—and that’s completely normal. Growth means evolving, reassessing, and sometimes pivoting in a new direction.

Ask yourself: What do I truly want from my career? Is it status, financial security, professional growth, or the freedom to do work you love?

Whatever the answer, own it and pursue it with confidence. Success isn’t about following a predetermined path—it’s about creating one that truly works for you.

3. Personal Happiness and Fulfillment

Have you ever heard someone say, "I worked for over 45 years at that company, and what do I have to show for it? I have no real friends, and my children barely know me."

This is a painful reality for many people who spent decades chasing career success—only to realize too late that they neglected what mattered most to them.

Success isn’t about external validation; it’s about inner contentment. It’s waking up with a sense of purpose and going to bed feeling fulfilled, regardless of how others measure your achievements.

If your current path doesn’t align with what truly makes you happy, consider making a shift. A job that brings work-life balance, a hobby that sparks joy, or deeper relationships with loved ones—these are all valid markers of success.

4. Health and Well-Being

In today’s fast-paced world, health and well-being are often overlooked as key measures of success. But without good health, can you truly enjoy anything else?

• Prioritizing mental and emotional well-being, whether through therapy, meditation, or self-care practices.
• Maintaining a fitness routine that enhances energy, longevity, and overall physical health.
• Fueling your body with nourishing foods that support long-term wellness.
• Setting boundaries that protect your time, energy, and peace of mind.
• Seeking professional help when needed, whether for physical health, mental well-being, or major life transitions.

No matter what success looks like to you, it should include taking care of yourself—physically, mentally, and emotionally. After all, what’s the point of achieving greatness if you’re too burnt out to enjoy it?

5. Meaningful Connections with Family and Friends

For some, the ultimate measure of success isn’t wealth, status, or accolades—it’s the quality of their relationships. Having strong, meaningful connections with family and friends can be one of the most important indicators of a successful life.

I learned this firsthand when I lost someone close to me to depression. It was a painful reminder that time with loved ones is never guaranteed. Achievements come and go, but the strength of our relationships is what truly sustains us.

Prioritizing family, nurturing friendships, and being present for the people who matter most can define success just as much—if not more—than career milestones or financial achievements.

I once read a quote that stuck with me:

“At the end of your life, you will never regret not having passed one more test, not winning one more verdict, or not closing one more deal. You will regret time not spent with a husband, a friend, a child, or a parent.” – Barbara Bush.

The relationships we build and maintain may very well be our greatest legacy.

6. Making a Positive Impact

For some, success isn’t measured by personal achievements but by the difference they make in the world—whether through helping others or contributing to a better planet. Leaving a lasting impact, no matter how big or small, can be one of the most meaningful ways to define success.

Maybe your passion lies in philanthropy, volunteer work, or community service. Maybe your greatest achievement isn’t a promotion or a financial milestone, but mentoring someone, uplifting your community, or simply being a source of kindness and support for those around you.

Beyond personal connections, success can also mean taking responsibility for the world we live in. For some, making environmentally conscious choices—whether through sustainable living, conservation efforts, or supporting eco-friendly initiatives—is a key part of success. Living in harmony with our surroundings and ensuring future generations have a thriving planet can be just as fulfilling as any career or financial goal.

For those who see success through this lens, it’s not about fame, wealth, or recognition—it’s about the legacy you leave behind. If even one person’s life, or the world itself, is better because of you, that’s a success worth celebrating.

7. Spiritual Fulfillment and Inner Peace

Success isn’t just about what you achieve—it’s about how you feel while living your life. A deep sense of inner peace is often the greatest sign that you’re on the right path.

For some, this peace comes from faith, prayer, or spiritual connection. For others, it’s found in mindfulness, gratitude, or living in alignment with their core values. When your priorities—career, relationships, personal growth—reflect what truly matters to you, peace follows.

I’ve found that some of my greatest moments of joy come from the simplest things—watching my children laugh, embracing quiet reflection, or feeling a sense of purpose in my daily life. True success isn’t just about what you build; it’s about the peace you feel within.

If you’ve ever felt like you have everything you thought you wanted but still feel unsettled, it may be a sign to turn inward. Success, at its core, isn’t just about external accomplishments—it’s about finding joy, meaning, and a sense of wholeness.

Define What Success Means to You—On Your Own Terms!

Success isn’t a fixed destination—it’s a personal journey that evolves with time. 

At certain points, your career path might take center stage; at others, nurturing relationships, focusing on well-being, or seeking inner peace may become the priority. What truly matters is that your definition of success reflects what brings you fulfillment, balance, and joy.

As you map out your path, consider using tools like the Eight Dimensions of Wellness to evaluate different areas of your life. Wellness and success are deeply connected—when you cultivate well-being in all aspects, you set yourself up for a truly fulfilling life.

Ultimately, success isn’t about external validation—it’s about alignment. When your actions reflect your values, when you feel peace with where you are and excitement for where you're going, that’s real success.

So, define it for yourself. Set your goals, take intentional steps, and pursue your vision unapologetically.  Because at the end of the day, success without inner joy is empty.